I got to be honest with you. When I was younger, I was terrified meeting people. I was the introverted bookworm for much of my childhood and as a young adult. I would prefer losing myself in a book, playing around on my computer or shooting pool by myself than going to a party or picnic. And the idea of reaching out and introducing to myself to somebody. Hell no! Thank God I found hapkido and was introduced to a progressive system to overcome fear and worry, and to build any skill... Fear and Worry:
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In the image above, you can see as white belts we learned the basic front kick.
After that, as yellow belts we added side kick, learning to pivot on our support foot.
And then as orange belts, training for purple belt, we were then learning to do the roundhouse which in some ways was a combination of a front kick (striking with the ball of the foot) with the pivot of the side kick to create the arc and centripetal force that makes the roundhouse so powerful.
Fear and worry may never completely disappear, but they’ll lose their power over you.
The things that stop you now will become insignificant with time and practice.
Remember, success isn’t about never feeling fear or worry.
It’s about facing them and moving forward anyway.
Don’t let fear and worry hold you back.
They’re just ghosts in your mind.
Lean into discomfort, embrace challenges, and take control of your life.
Start small, build consistency, and watch yourself grow.
You’ve got this.
Take that first step today, and keep moving forward.
The journey won’t always be easy, but it will be worth it.
Your future self will thank you.
Helping young men to become warriors, leaders, and teachers. Showing them how to overcome fear, bullies, and life's challenges so they can live the life they were meant to live.
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