The Paradoxical Leader:
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Imagine a graph with "Risk-Taking" on the X-axis and "Risk-Aversion" on the Y-axis.
A traditional leader might fall somewhere in the middle, taking calculated risks.
But a truly exceptional leader wouldn't be a single dot, but rather an area on the graph, encompassing both boldness and caution.
Here's why:
Remember, leadership isn't about being reckless or playing it safe.
It's about mastering the art of the paradox, balancing boldness with caution, and making decisions that move your team or organization forward.
By embracing this nuanced approach, you can become the leader who navigates uncertainty with confidence and leads your team to achieve remarkable things.
Now it's your turn, leader!
Think about a time you had to make a risky decision.
How did you balance your risk-taking tendencies with your risk-averse side?
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